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We still want to hear from you and encourage you to join the conversations on! I am not a drug addict, and so, if someone tries to tell me what it is like to be a drug addict, while a may be able to try and imagine what it is like, I really can not know. What we all have in common is that we are powerless over our distorted thoughts, feelings and behavior when it comes to love, fantasies and relationships. First, he has already heard it before, so he will not be shocked. I responded to another posting, and as I wrote I thought maybe a new thread with the topic posted might be helpful to others. And I have resigned myself to the reality that I may have to be alone.

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End Porn & Sex Addiction and Create Healthy Sexuality Message Board

Sex addiction message board

These messages will often remain posted for an indefinite period time, so a thread begun today can help support others who visit the board months or even years from now. There is no way out of the pain. Some women just love the man they are with so much that sex is the best way to express their love. Sounds easy enough just to leave but expect some sort of retribution whether defamation or worse. She said things like: 1 She wanted to know exactly what she needed to do to get back in the marriage as a wife 2 She thought she needed to quit her job due to the toxic environment as her boss is still flirting with her letting her know he is still interested 3 Her new boyfriend Craig had used her for sex as with both her boss and Jimmy had as well 4 She realized that she needed to learn how to be happy by herself and that was probably the first step in repairing our marriage relationship 5 She wanted to be able to tell the truth and not just tell people what she thinks they want to hear or what she wants them to believe I slowed her down and told her it would take a lot of time and work on our relationship to get back to that point. I don't remember bathing I am sure I did or doing important things like paying the mortgage.

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FAQs for Partners of Sex Addicts

Sex addiction message board

I don't want to put my children through an early death. Because of this her addiction is slipping away from her and she doesn't know what to do. I took Serzone for a while and it helped the depression, but the sexual side effects included difficulty in reaching an orgasm. Sometime that night I saw her go into the bathroom with her cell phone. I recall that I have felt numerous times during all of this that she is just inhuman. And if you are heterosexual, but act out, as they call it, in some homosexual type of activity or look at homosexual porn, that does not necessarily mean you are gay or Bi, or lesbian.

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And, you can join active viewer conversations and Come join us: If you have any questions,. You don't know that right now. It was a long and painful two months in limbo while my wife was trying to figure out if she wanted to stay in our marriage. I have read some of his postings, and it is rare that he or she has anything positive to add about anything. It will not cure you in and of itself, but you will not believe how you will feel. I have heard the lies she has told where she is at now from some close and I have been shocked to say the least. Here's the problem: She said she's sorry.

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It is a maladaptive way to compensate for this early attachment failure. You have every right to be angry, hurt, violated, etc. At least I assume you don't wake up with a hangover from a great night in the sack! I really want to understand why you feel this way? However, I am not what you might picture in your mind when you think of a sex addict. If thats what she needs in order for her self-esteem to be normal, it will happen again and again. I was the perfect girlfriend to him but he still did it, why? I have a fairly high-level professional job, a law degree, licensed to practice in several states, I go to church, I have a sister that loves me, good friends, and a great dog Chloe — adopted greyhound who really seems to understand m. Have you looked into the biochemical aspect of your addiction? I couldn't differentiate and I couldn't follow the program.

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She is jealous if I hang out with some of our common friends or family. I am hoping that these books will help me find a different path for recovery. She obviously no longer feels the need to consider my feelings about anything and nitpicks everything I do, talks about how annoying or irritating I am, calls me names, etc. Sex addition can be having relations with many people, or it can be some form of solitary activity such as porn, voyeurism, etc. One of the problems with the addiction, is that it already makes you spend way to much time alone. I didn't eat for nine days after d-day. And she keeps dropping more bombs.

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